Is Your World Half Full?
The WORLD is BIG and we are small
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The world is small and WE are BIG
We all share the same space in the entire world. Some seem boxed in daily routines while others travel worldwide and adventure connections and create excellent memoirs throughout. What sets them apart?
It's all regarding how you perceive the world. If you consider the world big, you will seem like one billionth of a component. If you sense like the world is small, you will exhibit yourself as a primary contributor. Maybe you fall someplace in the middle? I'm presuming the typical person appears satisfied with a few trips and back to their routine.
Remember, you are not average. Frankly, no one is. The earlier we accept this, the more we will appreciate life and allure passion to it. Our reservations are produced in our own subconscious. These constraints stem from nurture and individual character traits. If you were bred to only conceive inside the box, you would remain to live solely inside the box. On the other hand, if you are a risk-taker and notwithstanding restricted boundaries in place, you endure your way. You were hearkening your inner cravings. And that my dear will steer you farther than you ever conceived.
In my case, I grew up with an "inside the box" environment, a tiny box, indeed. In hindsight, I wished I had busted out of the box sooner. Comprehending that it's merely a darn box and there is no hindrance to space. That I could have gone anywhere, I pleased. I grappled for years believing this world is gigantic, and I am simply one of the billion individuals doing my rightful duty. BOY, was I WRONG? There is unquestionably a lot of ‘wrong’ in trying to do ‘right’ all the time. Why, you ask? Because there is no such thing as ‘right.’ It is all a matter of perspective. Right and wrong will only influence you to be narrow-minded, black, and white attitude.
Consequently, I thought I can not travel anywhere; I can not afford it. Who will babysit my kids? It's impracticable! And so I declared it not permissible and impermissible it was until I realized I ought to change for now and forever.
We must reflect on a more considerable potential. Does the choice you make chip away from living presently or make you feel extra alive? It can be the most insignificant circumstance or the most comprehensive; ultimately, you decide on the path you choose? Or better yet, create your own path.
I formulated my own path. I chose to go; no matter what ventures I had to take, I was going to go. I dreamt of visiting Paris (city of love). Desiring to go with my husband and rekindle our love (as we shifted into more parental responsibilities and less liberty for one other). He said it is not feasible for x amount of discernments. However, my obsession took over. I understood Paris was beckoning me; I welcomed it. I reiterated, "I AM GOING. I would love it if you agreed to join me on my journey. However, if not, nothing will hinder me. It is an opportunity for me to see the world behind my everyday life since childhood.”
He consented. We experienced a beautiful and memorable trip. The real magic of love occurred in Paris. While I deemed it was the city of love connecting people, little did I comprehend, I would fall in love with myself, my absolute self. It remained an epic moment for me. A release I yearned for. It was an awakening, if you must.
I actualized there is more for me to experience. My life has just now begun. Soon after my return, I honed my skills and registered my business with full confidence. Regardless of the many failures that came my way, I followed my dreams and persevered. I then began visiting other places. I went back to Paris 4 times, Barcelona, Belgium, Amsterdam, London, Wales, Pakistan, and much more.
"I have no regrets," said no one ever! We should nevermore regret even our anguish, griefs, sadness, anxieties. I know it's hard. So so hard. But these pains deter you from succeeding and observing the world as half full. I presumed I woke up late. Forgetting, I woke up at a precise time. We all know everything happens for a reason.
I graduated with honors in Chemistry with a minor in pediatric physical therapy. However, when I gave birth to my first child, I decided to leave it all behind to care for their upbringing. That was not an easy decision. When you are working passionately for a degree, you never consider your future on how or who you will raise your kids while you work. Or some of us (like myself didn't have an option). Alas, I packed away my degree and experience and chose to raise three beautiful young girls.
This sacrifice was my choice, but it was still a very rigorous one. I wanted to go back to school but had no help. After many trials and tribulations, I let go of the desire to go back to school. I prayed to God for answers for the betterment of inner peace and family.
The same day I created my makeup artistry website (old version). And although haters attempted to tear my wings, lo and behold, barely 3 weeks later, I was managing New York Fashion Week Runway with major designers, Hair Gurus, Spokespeople, Photographers, other Artists. My entire life changed. Additionally, I didn't need to compromise my family's upbringing.
As the years went by, I flourished and built a fan base, networked, and gained friends worldwide. Who knew that my inner passion (be it makeup initially) would traverse worldwide to meet and form new connections. I created new kinds of memories and apprehended my authentic passion for empowering lost souls, which is positively outside of my small damn box or my BUBBLE!
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I absolutely love that nothing will cease me from going somewhere or arranging what I need. I design my own path. There is no going back. My growth came in 2016, and I will continue to shed old leaves and make room for fresh ones. Today without a doubt, I believe the world is microscopic, and I am a primary contributor. I go wherever I fancy, help, inspire, and empower many women worldwide. The world is small; YOU are much more significant.
You are NOT SMALL, my friends. You may be one in a billionth. But the truth is no one can ever replace your share, redeem your space; it's all yours. It always was, is, and will be yours. The hindrance is all fearful imagination. Think beyond belief, so your opinion can become your new faith. I demand this day forward you conceive your world as half full. Trash the empty! Your emptiness is to be fulfilled with your greatest desires. Go forth and seize what is meant for you.
Those who question risks and what you will lose when you make decisions about growth, worry not about failures. It is never a loss. It is merely a lesson. Instead, focus on your future gains. Nothing can overpower your mind when you are genuinely grateful, optimistic, and welcome the bliss of the world. It almost feels like magic, as the world as a whole is in the palm of your hands.
Wordly yours,
